Father’s Day: The Unsung Architect of Love, Strength, and Sacrifice

Mushtaq Bala

As the world pauses on the third Sunday of June to celebrate Father’s Day, we are reminded of the quiet, steadfast presence of a figure who often works behind the scenes — the father. While Mother’s Day typically arrives with flowers and emotion, Father’s Day is more subtle, less ceremonial, but no less significant.

Fatherhood is a role that defies singular definition. It is equal parts protector, provider, teacher, and friend. From early mornings spent guiding small footsteps to late nights worrying about futures yet unseen, fathers shape the emotional and moral foundation of their children in enduring ways. In many homes, the father is the silent backbone, embodying resilience while carrying the burdens of responsibility with grace.

This day is not just about biological bonds — it is equally about father figures who step into the role through love, mentorship, and compassion. Uncles, grandfathers, elder brothers, teachers, and even neighbors have often played pivotal roles in nurturing, guiding, and uplifting the younger generation.

In today’s ever-changing world, the image of the father is also evolving. Beyond the traditional breadwinner archetype, modern fatherhood embraces emotional openness, shared parenting, and a more involved presence in everyday life. Dads now change diapers, attend school functions, and speak openly about mental health, vulnerability, and love. These shifts deserve celebration — not only for how they reshape families, but also how they redefine masculinity for generations to come.

Yet, it must be acknowledged that for many, Father’s Day is also a day of memory, absence, or longing — a time to honor those who are no longer with us or those who never could be part of our lives in the way we hoped. In remembering them, we celebrate their impact and reflect on how their influence continues to shape us.

Let us also use this day to express gratitude. A heartfelt call, a handwritten note, or even just quality time spent together can mean more than any gift. For fathers rarely ask for recognition — but today, we offer it freely.

To all the fathers, father figures, and those who carry the spirit of fatherhood in any form — thank you. Your love may be quiet, but it echoes loudly through generations.

(The author is a renowned filmmaker. He is Editor In Chief of Weekly Kashmir Pen Newspaper)